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The War of the Words V

 The War of the Words Series

Essays in this series:

  •  The War of the Words I

  •  The War of the Words II

  •  The War of the Words III

  •  The War of the Words IV

  •  The War of the Words V

January 23, 2025

This picture was taken from an MSNBC broadcast.

I’m sure you still don’t really know what happened in this election and why Trump got 49.8% of the popular votes (12/27/2024, per MSNBC). Do you know why I’m aware of this? Because in the mainstream media nobody really knows, they have been spending their airtime clueless, worried, and blaming people like Hispanic men. If you think about it, you’ll realize that the majority of Hispanic men come from very humble environments, so they are very vulnerable to misinformation and disinformation. Besides, some of them are part of the 35% of those who don’t know how to read. In this country, and according to the U.S. Department of Education, there are 43 million people who don’t know how to read (called low literacy skills), of which 35% is Hispanic. The other 35% is White. What makes you think that they would feel represented by Kamala? As far as it concerns them, she’s not only a woman, she’s a woman of a different race. Hispanic populations are as diverse as they can be, they come from different countries, cultures, races, economic levels, social standings, and political persuasions. It’s a mistake to think of them as one non-white thing. 48% of Hispanics are in the blue spectrum, and 48% in the red one, and not all of them are republicans or democrats. They are as divided as the country itself, big surprise. On top of that, in the media they are called Latinos, which only makes evident their hosts’ and commentators’ ignorance and racism. Such pejorative word, used on purpose, it’s as dehumanizing as the word Gringos, which comes from Green-go, as in “go away, yes you, the one in the green uniform.” to refer to Caucasians.

Being helped by apartheid nostalgia and third-reich aficionados, I was surprised Trump didn’t get 70% of the votes like Putin would in an election. I guess, here, they learned to be more subtle and credible.

The important thing is that Kamala obtained 48.3% of the votes; that’s a big chunk of the electorate, which is very encouraging. Those voters still are here and haven’t lost any value, not one bit. It means that we are surrounded by basically decent people. The ones who voted for Trump still don’t realize what they have done, but they will, when they lose their jobs, they are deemed unemployable, their health insurance disappears, and don’t get to retire because there won’t be a Social Security to count on, if republicans in government get their way. But, by then, it’ll be too late.

For people like me, it’s different because I came to this country in privileged circumstances. I’m one of the few who came here to learn more about the world and decided to stay, obtaining my U.S. citizenship in 2010, after following all the legal procedures, because I wanted to add something positive, leave the past in the past, move on, and help make of this country a true beacon for humankind. What happens here has great repercussions around the world, so I’m not going anywhere, I love this country and the good people in it of all walks of life. They deserve all my respect and company.

You won’t find here, on this site, the use of scare tactics to keep your attention, not even the use of persuasion to convince you of anything. However, I consider my obligation to be honest, take a stand, and write only when I have something to say.

If money is all you want, money is all you’ll going to get. But beware of what you wish for. Money is a tyrant in itself, it wants all your attention, wants you to forget your humanity and all your principles, ethics, and morals. It couldn’t care less about how little you know or how badly you treat others, not even the humiliations you yourself have to endure in its pursuit. At the end of the day, it wants you to sit down alone and stare at the wall, while your brain is busy counting each one of the bills and coins you got because that’s all you have, and it’s never enough. You’ll live to worship it, it will be in each one of your conversations, at your table, in your bed, on your pillow, and it’s all you’ll be. What a life! Besides money, nothing else will be in your head, so you won’t need AI, you’ll become it!

Your authentic self will erode into a shameless vestige of what you used to be that won’t help but show the inexistent moral compass in your head, as much persuasion as you can add to your empty words. People can actually read in between lines, but what do you care?

Your prostitution will be complete the day you manage to convince yourself that you’re better than anyone else, so that nothing else will penetrate your brain anymore. People with more money than you will still be able to penetrate you, but only from behind.

Finally, after an entire life lived, you’ll have nothing but void. In order to fill that void, you’ll lie even to yourself, and by doing so, you’ll render yourself unable to believe anyone else, as George Bernard Shaw would say.

Before you decide to go in that direction, allow me to take a moment of your time to tell you that there is a big world out there that can be scary and dangerous, yes, but it can also be extraordinary and vibrant, where people are genuinely joyful and laugh their hearts out because they are truly happy at the expense of no one.

If you ask me, money is not everything. I know, I know, that’s derisive to you, but I can assure you that there are more valuable things than money. I’m not talking about living in a perpetual vacation, I’m referring to doing something with your life that fulfills you and replenishes this world with joy. Of course you need some money to answer to your financial obligations, but the fulfillment is in what you can achieve in life, how much you can learn from it, and the direct and genuine connection you manage to have with those around you, as imperfect as we all are. Some people can be disappointing, rude, crude, cruel, and cold, but we can learn even from them. What we learn is the ability we have to endure difficult times and difficult situations to later receive the loving reward given by those who appreciate us for who we are. Life is better than perfect, because one person can make all the difference for good. Doesn’t it tell you something about human nature? As individuals, we are entire universes that can collide with other universes. Doing good is not for the weak, or for the faint of heart. To take humanity in a different direction you need strength, intelligence, and love. You have it in you I promise, just trust yourself, it is in your nature.

It’s our creativity and love what make us go in a positive direction, and nothing and nobody else can get in the way.

Open your eyes and look at your own value, and you won’t need anything more to be present in someone else’s life. Your body only is already a work of art, just the way it is. I can only imagine the wonderful things you’ll do or think from now on.

Nobody knows what is going to happen, but I trust myself and I trust you, because if you went through all of the above paragraphs right to this point in this piece, you already are open to connect and to love. That’s all we need.

Think of all the good people out there, they are worthy of our respect and support. In their honor, don’t lose focus, keep calm and keep going, because not everything has been said yet.

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Posts by date

 2025

Jan 23   The War of the Words V

 2024

Oct 09   Kamala and The Tree of Knowledge

Jul 11   About Writing III

Jul 11   Actresses 101

Mar 06   What Linklater Got Wrong

Feb 09   Techno-Heaven

 2023

Dec 25   Peter Panish

Sep 01   Pleasure or Paradise?

Aug 21   The War of the Words IV

Aug 16   Indicted

Mar 11   Witch Hunt

 2022

Sep 15   Optics II

Jul 16   The War of the Words III

Mar 26   Irrational Minds

Feb 05   Ursula's Path

Jan 16   Predicting the Future

 2021

Sep 11   Con-Science

May 26   The War of the Words II

May 26   Halston

Mar 19   The War of the Words I

Jan 12   January 6th, 2021

 2020

Nov 02   Separated

Aug 26   Optics I

Jul 27   Name Calling

Jul 13   About Writing II

Jul 04   Mr. Shallow

Jun 11   Hidden Figures

Jun 03   9 Minutes

Apr 21   Signaling

Feb 18   ToKyoTokyo Series Part III

Jan 16   ToKyoTokyo Series Part II

 2019

Dec 20   ToKyoTokyo Series Part I

Nov 04   Mr. Power

Oct 10   Today Is a Good Day

Sep 05   Inspiration Point

Aug 08   The Ones Who Walk Away

Jul 25   On Feminism

Jun 16   Marie Colvin in a Private War

Jun 12   About Writing I

Jun 06   Nureyev

May 31   Nora and Her Neck

Apr 24   Home Less

Apr 11   The Passion Side of Love

Mar 25   Gloria Bell

Mar 03   Mary Shelley

Jan 12   Mr. Fart

 2018

Dec 15   My Orson

Dec 15   Ping-Pong

 2017

Dec 05   Breaking Away

Nov 30   Julieta and the Despair of Being a Woman

Oct 24   Stupro

Oct 04   The Painter

Aug 05   A Quiet Passion… No More

Jul 27   Worst-Case Scenario

Jun 15   Catfight 2016

May 17   From Girl to Woman Boss

Apr 17   South

Mar 29   The Forgotten

Mar 03   In

Feb 22   Lost

Feb 04   2017

 2016

Nov 10   Hillary Lost

Oct 10   Trump, Trumpettes, and the Politics of Hate

Sep 11   September 11th, Laura Rodríguez, and the Haunting Past

Aug 19   Hillary

Aug 13   Striking Gold

Jul 25   What Is in the Name

Jul 09   Free in Dallas

Jul 02   Carol and Orlando

May 31   Reality and Reality Perception

Apr 22   Il Sorpasso

Apr 19   Lena Dunham and Kitty Genovese

Feb 25   December in California

 2015

Dec 02   My Italian and I

Nov 29   Three Different Geographical Points; One Basic Premise

Nov 28   I’m a Woman

Nov 23   From My Childhood to Our Last Day

Nov 22   Paris

Nov 22   Films, Filmmakers, and Writers

Nov 18   I Live in Texas


Posts by series

 About Writing

Jun 12, 19  About Writing I

Jul 13, 20  About Writing II

Jul 11, 24  About Writing III

 Optics

Aug 26, 20  Optics I

Sep 15, 22  Optics II

 The War of the Words

Mar 19, 21  The War of the Words I

May 26, 21  The War of the Words II

Jul 16, 22  The War of the Words III

Aug 21, 23  The War of the Words IV

Jan 23, 25  The War of the Words V

 ToKyoTokyo

Dec 20, 19  ToKyoTokyo Series Part I

Jan 16, 20  ToKyoTokyo Series Part II

Feb 18, 20  ToKyoTokyo Series Part III

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